You can leave the top shirt button undone and knot the tie just below it. This works well with a button-down collar (buttoned or not). If your neck is longer, try leaving your collar up, not folded down. Keep the tie loosely knotted, top collar band and shirt buttons open.
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It is important that a tie has the right length to give a good impression. The wide end of the tie should cover the entire button row of the shirt and run down from the upper edge of the belt to about one cm above the belt buckle, optional end up in line with your belt buckle underside.
This rule applies to button up shirting, and in its entirety really reads, “Never button the top button unless you’re wearing a tie.” The idea is that if you’re not wearing a tie, there’s no reason to close the top button—a move that may be associated with nerdy guys or the conservative clergy.
Ensure that everything fits properly. If you’re wearing a button-down shirt, make sure the buttons ride down the center of your body and that the shirt is properly buttoned. You may leave the top button unbuttoned.
Length. The ruling on this is pretty simple: Ties run button to button – that is your tie should cover the top button on your collar and the button of your pants. Now unless your pants have no button, this should be fairly simple.
When wearing a suit, always leave the bottom button open for the waistcoat and jacket. The tradition dates back to King Edward VII from the early 1900s. He unbuttoned the bottom of his waistcoat because he was too fat. He unbuttoned the bottom of his jacket to pay homage to the riding jacket that suits replaced.
Here’s the short answer: yes, you can wear a tie with a button-down collar. The longer answer, as it always does, has a bit more complication. The button-down collar is a particularly American style. The oxford-cloth button-down is so beloved that in menswear circles it’s become known simply as the OCBD.
But in the interests of giving a definitive answer to a direct question, the answer is: two. Undoing just the top button on a dress shirt when going tieless often looks uptight, not terribly relaxed. This is particularly the case if you can see any strain on the fabric around the second button. It wants to be undone.
Keeping the button fastened maintains a balanced proportion. These jackets should ALWAYS be buttoned when standing. Unbutton the jacket when sitting down, so that it doesn’t crease. The traditional way to button a two-button jacket is to Always fasten the top button and leave the lower undone.
For a grill-out with your buds, the standard rule of thumb is two to three buttons undone from the collar. But you also get more leeway for the lower buttons at the hem. This looseness is only acceptable if your shirt is half-tucked and in this case, you may unbutton the last two buttons.
Why should we not wear ties?
You can even increase your risk of musculoskeletal trauma just by wearing a tie, according to research by researchers at Yonsei University: those who wear ties often find their range of motion “significantly decreased when wearing a tight necktie compared to without it.”
Are ties outdated?
To answer the original question of whether men’s ties are going out of fashion – yes, they are going out of style. For better or worse, less and fewer men wearing a tie as part of their formal outfit and even though they aren’t dead yet, their importance is slowly diminishing.
For most men who are dressing for standard business environments, when wearing a suit or sport coat/dress pant combo with a tie we recommend a non button-down collar. Something like a standard dress shirt with a forward point, semi-spread, or spread collar is the way to go.
Should your tie show below jacket?
The width of your tie should match the width of your lapel. Your tie should just reach the waistband of your trousers or the top of your belt buckle. Your suit jacket should be just long enough to cover your pants’ zipper and butt.
The two-button jacket should never have both buttons fastened. The three-button suit comes with a simple rule: “sometimes, always, never.” It means you should sometimes fasten the top button (if you feel like it), always fasten the middle button, and never button the third.
Single-Breasted Waistcoat
You don’t want to have to undo a button every time you sit down like you would a jacket. The derivation stems from that same practical reasoning. It is generally believed that the ever-expanding King Edward VII could not sit down on his horse with his bottom button done up.
Due to their origin in sports, button-down collars are less formal than point collars. They tend to be softer and have more of a roll than point collars, which are straight and often stiffened via the insertion of collar stays.
The button-down collar is a variant on the point-collar dress shirt and is stylistically appealing for those who want to dress down but. But, in today’s casual world, a button-down with a tie and a sport coat is still quite well dressed.
Can you wear a tie with a casual shirt?
Wearing a tie in a casual setting gives you some freedom in terms of how loosely you can wear it around your neck. For example, feel free to undo the top button of your shirt and leave your tie just tight enough to keep the collar in place.
The when-to-button rule is: When wearing a single-breasted jacket from a suit, a blazer, sport coat or black-tie evening suit (tuxedo), the jacket is always buttoned when a man is standing and always unbuttoned when he is seated.
SO WHAT IS THIS HIDDEN BUTTON? All johnnie-O sport shirts feature our patented TWEENER BUTTON hidden between the second and third button to bridge the gap between too buttoned-up and not buttoned-up enough.