The groom and groomsmen can wear multiple styles. If you decide to go the tuxedo route, you can wear different style lapels to reflect the groomsmen’s personalities (shawl, peak, and notch are a few options) and still look cohesive. A groom can also stand out by wearing a tuxedo while the groomsmen wear black suits.
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Should groom wear same suit as groomsmen?
Traditionally the groom should wear the same outfit as his best man and any groomsmen, as well as possibly the fathers of the couple. However, as it is a very special day for the groom, most want to do something different to make them stand out from the crowd.
What should groomsmen wear if groom wears tuxedo?
“Groomsmen traditionally wear a suit or a tuxedo that matches or complements what the groom has decided to wear,” says Dudley. Matching with the style and feel of the groom’s look (as well as with the female attendants) will help ensure the entire bridal party is cohesive—especially in photos.
Does the groom wear a tux or suit?
Tuxedos are meant for evening events only, so your groom wouldn’t wear one for a morning or afternoon wedding. If you’re planning to marry during the day, a suit would be a better option for your groom’s attire.
What can groom wear to be different from groomsmen?
The most understated way of differentiating the groom is by switching up his neckwear or accessories. Maybe he adds a vest or a tie that matches the bride, while the groomsmen wear ties to match the bridesmaids. The boutonniere is another subtle way to help him stand out.
Do groomsmen pay for their own tux?
Whether the groom and his groomsmen are buying new tuxedos or suits or renting for the occasion, his family is traditionally responsible for paying for that outfit (Note: In many modern weddings the groomsmen pay for their own outfits.)
Who decides what the groom wears?
Most grooms will be responsible for sorting out their own outfit. The ushers and grooms father can be left to choose their own designs unless they are to be matching also.
When should the groom buy his suit?
4-6 months
Ideally, ordering your suit 4-6 months out is what we recommend. This gives the groom and the wedding party plenty of time to get their suits, try them on, and get any necessary in-person alterations made.
Can the groom wear a bow tie and groomsmen wear ties?
Grooms and groomsmen can absolutely wear bow ties. As a rule, very formal occasions that do not happen often are especially appropriate to wear a bow tie to.
What’s the difference between a tux and a suit?
The biggest difference between and tuxedo and a suit is the presence of satin. Tuxedos have satin details such as satin faced lapels, satin buttons and a satin side-stripe down on the pant leg. Suits typically do not have any of these features.
Can just the groom wear a tux?
The groom and groomsmen can wear multiple styles.
If you decide to go the tuxedo route, you can wear different style lapels to reflect the groomsmen’s personalities (shawl, peak, and notch are a few options) and still look cohesive. A groom can also stand out by wearing a tuxedo while the groomsmen wear black suits.
Does the bride go with the groom to pick out his tux?
“The bride should be with the groom to select his tuxedo style and groomsmen styles. Unless of course, the tuxedo will be a surprise for the bride. In that case, the groom should include someone with whom he values their opinion.”
Can the groom wear a black tux?
Black suits are a little edgy, and bring a lot of personality to an evening wedding, or vows in the fall or winter. If you decide a black suit is the way you want to go, try to work in a little more color than basic black and white—unless you’re going for a Blues Brothers, Reservoir Dogs vibe.
Can the groom wear a different color suit than the groomsmen?
As the groom, there’s no hard and fast rule that says you have to have to perfectly match the rest of the guys. In fact, more and more grooms are choosing to differentiate themselves by wearing contrast jacket and trousers. For example, you may want to wear a patterned suit, while your groomsmen wear plain suits.
How do you tell the difference between groomsmen tuxedo and groom?
Here are a few ways to differentiate the groom from the groomsmen.
- Switch up your tie. If your groomsmen are sporting long neck ties, consider wearing a bow tie instead.
- Add a boutonniere.
- Slightly elevate your style.
- Mix-and-match colors.
- Play with prints.
How does a groom stand out?
Mix and Match Ties
Letting your groom wear a different style of tie than his groomsmen is a subtle way for him to stand out. In today’s fashion-forward world, both bow ties and long neck ties are stylish options to choose from.
What does the mother of the groom do?
Traditionally speaking, the mother of the groom is responsible for planning and hosting the rehearsal dinner with the grooms’ father (typically) the night before the wedding. This is one of the biggest mother of the groom responsibilities, so make sure you start planning the dinner about six months in advance.
What does the groom pay for?
The groom is traditionally expected to pay for the marriage license and officiant’s fees, and buy the bouquet for his “date” (the bride), as well as her engagement and wedding rings and a gift; he should also purchase boutonnieres and gifts for his groomsmen.
Who buys the groom’s suit?
Whether it’s black-tie, formal or semi-formal attire, by the tradition the groomsmen usually pay for their own suits when buying them outright. As the groom, you’ll have a say in style choices, colors and how smart you want the groomsmen to be dressed.
What should a groom wear?
GROOM ATTIRE CHOICES
- FULL FORMAL / WHITE TIE / EVENING TAILS.
- FULL FORMAL DAY DRESS / MORNING SUIT.
- SEMI-FORMAL EVENING / BLACK TIE / TUXEDO (AKA DINNER JACKET) / SMOKING JACKET.
- SEMI-FORMAL DAY DRESS / STROLLER ( AKA BLACK LOUNGE/ STRESEMANN /DIRECTOR )
- CONVENTIONAL / THE WEDDING SUIT (SINGLE OR DOUBLE-BREASTED)
Does father of groom match groomsmen?
Should Fathers Match the Groomsmen? As a general rule, the fathers should at least match the level of formality of the groomsmen. That means if the groomsmen are wearing tuxes, the fathers should wear tuxes as well. If the groomsmen are in suits, they should at least wear a suit.